Travel – Explore the World you live in

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Traveling is one thing that many people do not get to do, but they should. Traveling in itself gives you the opportunity to not only explore different countries, but different cultures as well. It is not easy for outsiders to begin to understand the differences in cultures, until you experience it for yourself.

From Humble Beginnings

When I was younger, I grew up very poor, which is something that I have discussed before here on my blog, and being poor comes with limitations. I saw many different parts of the world on television and just knew that I would never get to see them. It seemed to be the stuff that you only dream of.

Fast forward several years and I’ve had the opportunity to not only travel across the country – including Hawaii – but also across the world. I’ve been to France, Italy, the United Kingdom, Amsterdam, China, Ireland, Turkey, Mexico, and many spots in the Caribbean. Those of you who have been following along also know that I took a trip to Israel in December – traveling only with a backpack.

Open your Eyes to Different Cultures

It is understandable to blink twice or raise an eyebrow when questioning the various cultures that we hear about on television or in the newspaper. I can honestly say that in order to really see how these cultures live, it is necessary to open up your eyes as well as your mind. Once you have the opportunity to experience these cultures firsthand, and open up your mind to the reasons why they live the way they do, only then can you begin to understand why they believe what they do.

Mark Twain was quoted saying, “travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.” I would agree.

Traveling has been a real eye-opening experience for me and it has afforded me the luxury of experiencing different cultures firsthand. It is an opportunity that I am thankful for, and one that you will be thankful for, too.

Famous Last Words

One of the most inspiring quotes that I’ve heard in regards to traveling came from Anthony Bourdain at the end of his No Reservations series:

“If I’m an advocate for anything, it’s to move. As far as you can, as much as you can. Across the ocean, or simply across the river. The extent to which you can walk in someone else’s shoes or at least eat their food, it’s a plus for everybody. Open your mind, get up off the couch, move.”

Concentrate on Relationships

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Relationships are very important and we will inevitably begin new ones throughout our lives. Whether these relationships are personal or business in nature, there are surefire rules that will help you create and foster successful endeavors.

Rule #1: Invest in People

In business, there are two guidelines – hire slowly, fire quickly. You want to take your time and make sure you find the best person suited to the job you are hiring for, but after that you need to make sure that the employee is going to do the job. Repeated lack of performance is an excellent reason to get rid of employees and the reason is simple. Mitt Romney had it right when he said that corporations are people. Your entire business is about people and your business is only as good as the people you hire.

Rule #2: Eliminate the Drama

Leave the drama to the soap operas and people who believe they are soap opera characters can be left behind as well. There is far too much drama in this world and it achieves absolutely nothing. It is important to surround yourself with people who want to be more. If you want to be more religious, you would surround yourself with good, religious people. If you aim to be more successful in your business or innovation, you have to surround yourself with people who live to change the world. This is why I spend quite a lot of time in San Francisco where the atmosphere is positive and focused on necessary change.

Rule #3: Focus on those Closest to you

Those of you who have been following me know that I have made it a point to include “Elizabeth time” in my schedule, and there is good reason for this. Fostering the relationships that are nearest and dearest to your heart is good for you. It helps you to grow as a person, and as a couple, or as a family. These are the relationships that will sustain you, more so than business relationships and they should be a significant part of your life.

You are judged by the company you keep, and I firmly believe this. As such, I’ll leave you with these quotes:

“Do not be misled. Bad associations spoil useful habits.” 1 Corinthians 15:33

“He that is walking with wise persons will become wise, but he that is having dealings with the stupid ones will fare badly.” Proverbs 13: 20

Tell me where to go in New York City

Day 322 – I’m back in New York City for a couple days. Since picking up a new client, I’ve been spending about 2 days a month here. This time I brought Elizabeth so that we can check out some new places.

This is my sixth trip here. The first was with Elizabeth and another couple two years ago. We did most of the tourist stuff you’re supposed to do. But still, I haven’t checked out any good spots to eat, drink or just chill.

Everything I know about New York I learned from movies and TV shows. We found a great deli because its where Meg Ryan fake orgasmed in ‘When Harry Met Sally.’

So I need your help today. Tell me where to go. I’m looking for restaurants, bars, coffee shops, bookstores, comic book stores, music stores and any other cook place that isn’t Times Square. Elizabeth likes swanky places. I prefer dives and street food. That means you have a wide range of places to recommend.

So hit me up. Where should we go??

- Wesley Donehue

In my campaign bag

Day 302 – My homie Zach Lamb emailed me asking what are some must carry tools on the campaign trail. Here are the things that I always have on me.

Hope this helps, Zach. Go win some races.

- Wesley

Sad chapter in American history produces amazing food

Day 226 – South Carolina’s history is plagued with racism as our state was built on the backs’ of African slaves. In that history we find a deep culture passed down through generations. For example, earlier this week I tweeted “stepping is a great African American art” while watching a step show during a middle school cultural awareness pageant.

Anthony Bourdain described it best when visiting South Carolina’s coast:

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Your little corner of the earth

Day 216 – Yesterday a friend accused me of becoming less conservative because I’ve been spending so much time on the “left coast.”

I’m not becoming less conservative. In fact, seeing more of the world has only strengthened my resolve as a conservative. Also, my views aren’t just being influenced by San Francisco. They are being influenced by many different regions.

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Changing the world while it changes us

Day 204 – Its late and I should probably be sleeping, but I’m full of energy after a night on the Las Vegas strip. Today we celebrated Elizabeth’s birthday. I gambled real money for the first time ever at a casino during lunch. It was practice for the night to come.

We started our big evening with dirty martinis at Sinatra before dinner at an amazing French Restaurant, Mon Ami Gabi, within the casino Paris. In case I have not told you in the past, my southern belle at times believes she is a Parisian girl. I don’t tell her otherwise because sometimes I believe it too.

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Did I find San Francisco’s best dive bar?

Day 175 – It’s my last day in San Francisco for this work trip. I have to wake up around 5 am to catch an early flight back home. I just got back from another exploration and boy am I happy I feel better than I did yesterday.

Anthony Bourdain said that The Mission’s Zeitgeist bar was a hidden San Francisco gym. He was exactly right. I love this bar as much as I love Comstock, but for completely different reasons. If there was ever a bar the complete opposite of Comstock, its Zeitgeist.

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Tonga! Tonga! Tonga!

Day 174 – Last night I predicted that today I would feel like butt. I underestimated just how bad I would feel. It’s 5 pm and I still feel like hell. This is not good.

This morning my buddy Tom texted me “Tonga! Tonga! Tonga!” Exactly! Take my advice here – visit The Tonga Room. And then leave after two drinks.

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Getting tiki in San Francisco

Day 173 – My fascination with San Francisco didn’t start with my first Apple product. It started in the mid-eighties when my grandfather introduced me to Star Trek at the Walterboro Drive-In Theatre. My introduction to the final frontier was with Star Trek: The Voyage Home. While most Trek fans rate it as the worst, or one of the worst, Trek flicks, I fell in love. As a young child, the time travel, Spock riding a city bus and of course, the humpback whales, immediately grabbed my obsession. I became an eight-year-old Trekkie. I watched The Voyage Home at every opportunity. I still do. And I still get giddy watching that Bird of Prey crashing into the Bay, just barely missing the Golden Gate Bridge.

As I dove deeper into my Trek obsession, I found glimpses into Star Fleet Academy fascinating and I wondered “Why San Francisco?”

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Comstock: The refined San Francisco saloon

Day 172 – After a second great day working in San Francisco and pouring through email and donation statistics, I hit the road to continue my Anthony Bourdain inspired journey. Alone, walking down Market Street, I realize how much I enjoy getting out on my own. Its not very often that I get alone time. I love being with my wife and my Donehue Direct team, but very seldom do I get time to just explore. Explore my thoughts. Explore my creativity. Explore life. Every man needs time alone and this week I’m going out of my way to not invite people to join me on my exploration.

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San Francisco by Anthony Bourdain

Day 171 – If you haven’t watched No Reservations or The Layover starting Anthony Bourdain, you’re missing out big time. Bourdain is one of my favorites. He was just a New York City cook until he skyrocketed to popularity after publishing Kitchen Confidential: Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly. After writing a couple more books he started a show on the Food Network and then blew up with his Travel Channel show No Reservations.

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Stuck in Charleston for the rest of my days

Day 165 – This week has been busy for me. Either doing interviews, or traveling for clients had me bogged down. It was madness. One day, I got over 100 emails in an hour.  Getting to Charleston for the debate was like heaven.

Looking back at this week, I’ve gotten a lot done. Either being quoted in the Examiner, Businessweek or being interviewed on CNN, or going live on MSNBC, CBS News, Fox…eh, the list goes on.

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Let 2012 blow your mind out of your skull

Day 149 – I hate money. I really really hate it. A lot of people are driven by money, especially entrepreneurs. Perhaps I shouldn’t make this confession as I’m currently seeking investors in different web ventures. But it’s the truth. Money just doesn’t motivate me. Now building something cool like a winning campaign or a big business, that motivates me, but having a lot of green stored away just doesn’t float my boat.

Today is the first day of 2012. I’m pumped to see what this year can bring. The truth is that last year was the best year of my life. Sure, it had a good many downs, but I lived life to its fullest with my soulmate. **Is it just me or has Mark Sanford completely ruined that word?**

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Year in Review: Seeing The World

Day 143 – I certainly didn’t make all of my resolutions become reality. I dropped the ball on a good many of them. This week is my ‘year in review’ as we head into the new year.

Last January I resolved to travel more, both within the United States and abroad. I certainly did that.

The year started off pretty slow as I was busy with the South Carolina legislature, but it picked up and I spent more time on airplanes this year than I ever had before.

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Don’t go through security with a gun in your bag

Day 100 – I made it to 100 straight days of blogging. No wonder I’m so tired.

In this quick video, I tell you why its a good idea to slow down and pay attention to what you’re doing. Leaving keys and credit cards places is bad. Going through airport security with a loaded handgun is REALLY bad.
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Just having fun

Day 93 – On a plane again. A big ole Delta 757 this time.

I don’t know if I convinced Elizabeth to move out to San Francisco, but I know I convinced myself.

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A visit to wine country

Day 92 – Building on my plan to lure Elizabeth to the west coast, we visited wine country today. We joined a great tour bus for the day trip to Napa and Sonoma. What started off as a quiet day with 9 strangers turned into a crazy day with friends.

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Magic happens in San Francisco

Day 89 – So don’t start attacking me yet. I said I was going to blog every single day, and I meant it. I wrote a great post for Sunday about the lack of temperance in our society, but somehow it got deleted. I’ll have to rewrite it.

I’m back on an airplane. This time I’m heading to San Francisco. And I’m bringing Elizabeth with me.

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Get through airport security faster

Day 76 – Here I sit again on an airplane. Nearly 12 hours in the air, a four-hour layover, another three hours in the air and then a two hour drive really sucks. I mean, really really sucks! The only cool thing about this day is that I will actually land in the United States before we left China. We left China at 2 pm on Tuesday. We will land in New York at 1:30 pm on Tuesday.

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