Concentrate on God

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You don’t have to look far these days to see the name of God being used in an ill-contrived lesson. People use the name of God, for what appears to be, all the wrong reasons. The biggest thing that I’ve noticed is that not only has our nation appeared to be moving away from God, but Christians – the very ones who tout that God is our savior – are moving further away from God as well. It seems like a provocative statement, but I firmly believe it to be the truth.

Preach Love, Not Hate

It used to be that when people preached God, they preached love and acceptance. Now they are using the word of God and his existence to preach hate. Hate those who are not the same, Hate those who do not believe what you believe, Hate those who denounce God… it goes on and on and on.

Why is there so much hate in the world? What does it solve? The truth is it solves absolutely nothing at all. So why do Americans, and the rest of the world for that matter, continue to preach hate?

Increasing Frustrations

As a Republican political consultant, I’ve become increasingly frustrated by the hate that is consistently thrown towards other human beings. The Republican party isn’t going to grow itself by telling people why they aren’t good enough to be Republicans or even worse, outlining why they aren’t good people.

To make matters worse, it’s not just in politics. I’m also frustrated with the members of the church who seem to make it their mission to focus more on who they hate, versus actually practicing the love of God.

The truth is actually quite simple: We are not going to succeed in spreading God’s word through heat-filled rhetoric. That only turns people off and serves to prove that we are hypocrites. On that note I might add, the world is full of hypocrites, and yes, some go to church. Even though I try to avoid hypocrisy, I still ultimately fail. Know that hypocrisy is a human trait but not a trait of God… concentrate on Him.

Screw political correctness

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As a political operative, its my job to call out issues and movements with which I disagree. While I will call out an individual for delivering what I consider to be a wrong message, I try not to call out people out for their morals. I don’t want to rock the boat too much and I certainly don’t want to be politically incorrect. I’m not the most important person in the world, or even on my neighborhood block, but things I say have a tendency to end up in the news. My political mentor once told me “its not your job to be in the news. It’s your job to get your clients in the news.”  He’s right. And lets be honest, the majority of times I ended up in the news, it wasn’t for the most positive actions. 

That’s why I try not to insult, but I have discovered over the past few years while watching the moral decline of our nation that political correctness is killing our nation.  Too many of us stay quiet. We don’t want to be labeled haters. Or judgmental.  Or maybe we don’t want our own sins uncovered. We don’t want to feel, or even worse, be publicly labeled, as hypocrites.

I’ve written about this before. I said that as Christians, we shouldn’t be pointing out others sins while full of sins ourselves.  I still believe that. But I also believe we should address our own sins AND start calling out those who are ruining our nation.

Read this exchange between myself and SC Democratic Executive Director Amanda Loveday.


I have always liked Amanda and besides the one time when out of frustration I told her to wear a muzzle, I have tried to treat her with respect. She’s smart and motivated, but here she shows the problem we are facing. As soon as we start calling people out for their actions, liberals start labeling us judgemental. They love throwing Matthew 7:1 in our face “do not judge, or you too will be judged.” 

Like I wrote last week, that one snippet of Jesus’ words don’t tell the full story.

Jesus did not say to not judge. He went on to say in verses 7:2 – 5 “For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”

Jesus was saying that when measuring others, make sure that you are also measuring yourself by the same standard. Make sure you are addressing your own sins.  Anything else is hypocritical.

I am a sinner. I curse too much. I probably drink a little too much. My heart often fills with anger and I have a terrible time with jealousy. And if you have read my past rants, you will know that I see jealousy as the worse of all sins:

“Jealousy is the reason for all other sins, giving its creator pride the title of “the greatest sin.” As C.S. Lewis wrote in Mere Christianity “it was through Pride that the devil became the devil: Pride leads to every other vice.” Very true.

I work on my sins everyday, but just because I sin does not mean that I do not have the right to call out the sins that are sending our nation on a downward spiral.
 
Absolute rights and absolute wrongs do exist.  And with rising rates of abortion, teenage pregnancy and divorce, we know that it is not an opinion that our morals are sliding.  It is fact.

Screw political correctness. I’m done watching our nation’s moral decline while staying quiet. I will address the issue with love and not the hate we all too often see, but I will talk more about our morals. If you don’t like it, just label me judgmental…because I am. You should be too.

- Wesley Donehue

PS – PLEASE leave your thoughts in the comments sections. If you agree, say you agree. Feel free to give me your rant. If you disagree, let’s talk about it.

Are you a prophet? Or are you making dumb arguments?

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Pro-life activists often use a passage from Jeremiah to argue that life begins at conception. Jeremiah 1:5 states:

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart.”

Except that’s not all it says. The Lord’s full declaration to Jeremiah is:

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

In a San Francisco church we attended Sunday, the Pastor read a different passage from Jeremiah in making the point that God has a plan for you. Jeremiah 29:11 states:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Except that’s not what is says. The full passage is:

“When seventy years are completed for Babylon, I will come to you and fulfill my good promise to bring you back to this place. For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back from captivity. I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile.”

In making the argument for same-sex marriage, a lot of liberal activists quote the Declaration of Independence:

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.”

Except that’s not all that is says. Jefferson’s full quote is:

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”

Perhaps its because I work in politics and every day I see a reporter cherry pick a quote from my clients to gain more readership, but lately this is something that really gets under my skin. It seems disingenuous to use a quote without providing the context, or at the very least, using the full quote.

Maybe God was saying that he knows the name of every baby before he/she is born, and I certainly believe he does, but I’m pretty sure he wasn’t saying that every baby is a prophet.

Maybe God does have a plan for every one of us, and I believe he does, but I’m pretty sure in that particular verse from Jeremiah, he was talking about a group of people who were exiled from their land. Specifically, he was talking about his chosen people in his promised land.

And yes, we all do have natural and equal rights, but make not mistake about it, those rights are endowed by the Creator. All the while, many liberals tell us “not to force our beliefs on them” while arguing for the rights the Founders believed emanated from God. How can we claim rights granted by a Creator, while denying His existence, or in some cases going so far as to mock those who believe?

All I’m saying is that I have a hard time listening to debate or sermons or pretty much anything where the basis of the argument is a half-quote or one taken out of context.

- Wesley Donehue

PS – I don’t post these type rants because I have all the answers. I do so to encourage civil conversation and debate. Tell me what you think.

You of little faith

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‘It was Hezekiah who blocked the upper outlet of the Gihon spring and channeled the water down to the west side of the City of David.”

– 2 Chronicles 33:30

The story of King Hezekiah can be found in the books of Isaiah, 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles. He is not a fictional character. We know he existed. Science and archaeology prove he existed. Proof can be found all across Jerusalem.

We all see the fight between science and religion and nowhere is it more defined than in creationism. I often find myself in debates with others, and often in debates with myself, about the creation of our world. My brain is programmed to accept scientific facts. Perhaps that is the way God wired me or perhaps I programmed myself as a child. I do not know where it happened, but it happened and it creates within me an internal struggle that is very hard to reconcile.

I want to believe the Bible, but hearing Bible stories as a child often makes me believe that they are just that – stories, or fiction. I need to touch something. I need to see something. My brain demands proof.

Matthew 14:22-36 tells us the story of Jesus walking on water. Peter asks Jesus “tell me to come to you on the water.” Jesus replies “come” and Peter steps out onto the Sea of Galilee. But after a few steps, Peter begins to sink and we are told “immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. ‘You of little faith,’ he said, ‘why did you doubt?’”

Elizabeth recently asked me “who is your favorite disciple?” It’s Peter. He is a man who doubted, a man who even denied Jesus three times, yet he became the foundation of the church and was even martyred for Christ.

I am no Peter, but it does make me feel better that even Jesus proclaimed Peter’s lack of faith, yet Peter became so faithful that he allowed himself to be crucified upside down.

This week I was baptized in the Jordan River where Jesus was baptized by John the Baptist. I stood in the tomb in which Jesus was resurrected. Elizabeth and I read Psalms of Accession to my church group while ascending the steps of Jerusalem. I prayed for my family in the Garden of Gethsemane where Jesus wept and prayed for his people. I forged eternal memories but it was in the tunnel of Hezekiah that my faith was strengthened.

The 2000-year-old 1,700 foot tunnel connecting the Gihon spring to the western side of the City of David lies far underground. There is no reason to even believe the tunnel was there aside from the Bible telling us so. In 1838 the tunnel was found exactly where the Bible told us it was dug through solid rock.

I felt like Indiana Jones walking beneath the Israeli ground and it was while humming John Williams’ theme to Indiana Jones and talking to our guide, Ronny Simon (more on him later), that it hit me – I was walking through a tunnel, I was touching it, I was seeing it, a tunnel described by the Bible, uncovered and definitively labeled by science. This was not fiction. This was a Biblical truth.

That demands a question – if Hezekiah’s tunnel is fact, why would the rest of the Holy Scriptures not also be fact?

The Bible is not fiction. The Bible is a historical document describing the history and saving of our world. You may be one of little faith and if so, I recommend a journey to the Holy Land. This is too important of a subject to doubt. And if you are one of strong faith and little doubt, a trip to Israel will be even more meaningful.

- Wesley Donehue

ps – read more about our trip at www.wesleydonehue.tumblr.com.

Churches are trending

Communications methods change. The printed newspaper is all but dead. CDs and DVDs are quickly becoming a thing of the past. TV networks see the wave of broadcast and cable changing. And one day the Internet will become faded too.

But for now, the Internet is stil in a growth period while fundamentally changing many sectors. It’s important for churches to catch the wave and begin spreading God word’s online.

Recently I helped First Baptist Church of Columbia start a social media ministry and I’m excited to see Janine running it fulltime. She’s a rockstar for Christ.

- Wesley Donehue

When will the worthy step up and lead?

This past Sunday, Dr. Estep of First Baptist of Columbia, preached a very powerful sermon on political candidates. The parable of from Judges 9:7-15 really resonated with me.

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7 When Jotham was told about this, he climbed up on the top of Mount Gerizimand shouted to them, “Listen to me, citizens of Shechem, so that God may listen to you.

8 One day the trees went out to anoint a king for themselves. They said to the olive tree, ‘Be our king.’

9 “But the olive tree answered, ‘Should I give up my oil, by which both gods and humans are honored, to hold sway over the trees?’

10“Next, the trees said to the fig tree, ‘Come and be our king.’

11 “But the fig tree replied, ‘Should I give up my fruit, so good and sweet, to hold sway over the trees?’

12 “Then the trees said to the vine, ‘Come and be our king.’

13 “But the vine answered, ‘Should I give up my wine, which cheers both gods and humans, to hold sway over the trees?’

14 “Finally all the trees said to the thornbush, ‘Come and be our king.’

15 “The thornbush said to the trees, ‘If you really want to anoint me king over you, come and take refuge in my shade; but if not, then let fire come out of the thornbush and consume the cedars of Lebanon!

Just one problem – the thornbush has no shade. Doesn’t that sound like so many empty promises we hear from our political candidates?

We are being forced, as a nation, to settle for subpar leadership. Those who have been blessed with the God-given ability to lead, much like the olive tree, the fig tree and the vine, will not be bothered – they are infinitely more concerned with what they would have to give up in order to do what is right by their fellow countrymen.

When the vine will not lead in order to keep his wine, when the fig tree will not lead in order to keep his fruit, when the olive tree will not lead in order to keep his oil and when the businessman will not lead in order to maintain his complacent lifestyle, we are condemned to being led by whoever is willing.

We complain about the ineptness of our leaders in this country, but we never acknowledge that the problem only exists because of the inaction of those who could lead – but won’t.

- Wesley Donehue

A Heated Pub Politics

Day 201 – Last night was the most intense debate we’ve had on Pub Politics. Christine Johnson, Executive Director of South Carolina Equality joined us to talk about equal rights for gay, lesbian and bi-gender South Carolinians.

Let me say outright that I’m a very open-minded and accepting white southern male. I try to be friends with everyone, and I myself accept the decisions of my gay friends. Personal choice don’t bother me like they do some folks. While my religion says that homosexuality is a sin, and I believe it is, I myself am a sinner.

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Choosing not to choose

Day 198 – What a great sermon in church today. Dr Estep continued his Sermon on the Mount series by talking about the narrow path to Heaven. As he stated “to not choose is to choose.”

Dr Estep is saying that the path to Hell is easy for the simple fact that you don’t have to do anything. You don’t have to choose because by not choosing, you have already made a choice. You have chosen a life without Christ.

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I found a home within our church

Day 191 – Last year I set a goal to get deeply involved in a church ministry by the end of 2011. I failed to accomplish that goal, but I wasn’t going to let another year pass by with another failure. I’m happy to announce that today we officially launched First Baptist Church of Columbia’s Internet ministry.

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Do not judge, or you too will be judged

Day 184 – Dr Wendall Estep offered another great sermon today at First Baptist Church of Columbia. Continuing his series on The Sermon on The Mount, he gave a thoughtful lesson on judging.

Matthew 7:1-11 cites Jesus as saying:

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

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Learning from Richie

Day 177 – Spiritual life is a very important aspect of my being. It instills a sense of humility that’s sometimes easy to lose sight of- but devoting time to praise reminds us that there’s something greater, something we can never be. It’s humbling.

Sharing that feeling with my friends and family is amazing.

Tonight, I attended a very meaningful ceremony for my friend Richie Hayward. Richie was ordained as a Deacon of First Baptist Church of Columbia. The meaning and the substance behind this really hit me hard as I watched the FBC Deacons lay hands on Richie and the other inductees.

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You Will Be Supplied What You Demand

Day 29 – In continuing our study of the Beatitudes this weekend, Dr. Wendell Estep of First Baptist Church of Columbia moved on to Matthew 5:6, which states “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness.”

Dr. Estep said that we have three types of thirsts. The first is the physical thirst. As you know, I certainly have a large appetite for tacos, boiled peanuts and barbecue. The second is the intellectual thirst. The third is spiritual thirst.

I’ve been getting a lot of questions as to why I talk about faith so much on this blog. It’s an easy answer. I believe that to be a better person you must thirst for spiritual growth. That is not to say that I think religious people are better people than atheists. I don’t think they’re better. I just think they’re are better off.

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The Other Side of Sports

DAY 17 - It has been an extremely busy week for us at Donehue Direct and I do not have a lot of time to write today. I’m posting now because I promised to post everyday. I have a really good post that I wrote yesterday on “The Lost Art of Hand Written Thank You Notes” but I haven’t even had time to post it. I’ll get it up at some point today.

One quick programming note – We will be shooting Pub Politics Episode 70 at 6:00 pm today from Tin Roof. This is our Back to School and USC Football episode. Our guest will be Todd Ellis (pictured above with Coach Spurier), voice of the Gamecocks. For those of you who have been to one of our episodes at Tin Roof, you know that the sound has been sucky. This time we will be using Tin Roof’s stage and sound system. It should be really good. I think you’ll dig it.
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Should You Talk About God?

Day 14- It is early Sunday morning and I write from Charleston while watching “Meet the Press”. I do not have much time to write today, so I want to pose a question to you all.

Under no circumstance do I want to turn this into a political blog. However, I do want to discuss faith and in this instance, the circumstances just happen to be about a political figure.

When first running for Congress, Michelle Bachmann spoke at a mega church stating that she did not want to become a tax attorney, but her husband urged her to and because the Bible says a wife should be submissive to her husband, she did. Congressman Bachmann was asked about the comments during Friday night’s debate and she stated that the word “submissive” is a synonym for “respectful.” Maybe that’s true. Maybe its not. That’s not where I want to go with this.

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4 Virtues of a Good Man

Day 13 - It has been another whirlwind weekend. I write from Charleston, SC where I just arrived late last night for the Redstate Gathering and Rick Perry’s announcement for President of the United States, after driving six hours from Martinsville, VA

Upon arriving in Charleston, I hit downtown with my buddy Patrick, enjoying a few beers at Pearlz, Tommy Condon’s and Social. We hooked up with some national political buddies, showing them the charm of the nation’s best city.

The drive to Charleston gave me an opportunity to reexamine C.S. Lewis’ Mere Christianity. I regularly enjoy books on tape as they seem to help the time pass by much faster than music while driving long distances.

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Oh Happy Day!

Day 8 - Yesterday I finished reading Grethen Rubin’s The Happiness Project on the same day Pastor Wendell Estep of Columbia’s First Baptist Church began a study of The Sermon on the Mount, beginning with the Beatitudes and a discussion on happiness. I found it amazing that God put this sermon in front of me as I began this one –year project concentrating on happiness.

As Dr. Estep explained, “The Sermon on the Mount, found in the Book of Matthew, is the Christian Constitution. The Beatitudes are the preamble. Together they tell us what is expected of us as Christians.”

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A Life Well Lived

Day 5 – How do you want people to remember you?

Do you want to be known as some selfish jerk that curses too much, drinks too much, loses his temper and never lifts a finger for other people? Or do you want to be known as a good man, humble, giving and warm-hearted?

I’ll take the latter, thank you. I prefer to hear God’s voice say “well done good and faithful servant.” If people genuinely say, “he was a good man” at my funeral, I will have had a life well lived.

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Find an Accountability Buddy who Makes You Reach Your Goals

DAY 3 – Please do not think I’m one of those “social media gurus” trying to sell you on lifestyle design. Unless you are running for office or promoting a cause, I don’t want your money. I tweet and FourSquare my life, but I’m not one to share the more intimate parts of my life.

So why am I doing this?

People need accountability. I need you to hold me accountable. I want to help hold you accountable.

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Glad to See Some Gamecocks with their Heads on Straight

The last 36 hours have been a nonstop whirlwind. It all started Wednesday midmorning when Elizabeth’s mother called saying that her grandfather, Daddy Bill, who she is extremely close with, took a sharp turn downward in health. In fact, the doctors did not think he would make it through the day.

We rushed to Charleston and throughout the day, 87-year-old Daddy Bill battled back, joking that he had to get out of the hospital to train for the bridge run. All the prayers from friends, church members, family and online buddies must have worked because by yesterday morning, Daddy Bill had rallied and surprised everyone. I think that as long as Daddy Bill is in good enough health to watch Fox News and yell at President Obama, he’s in pretty good spirits. Thank God for miracles.

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Thirst for righteousness and show it

Thursday night’s REAL Men event at First Baptist Church of Columbia inspired me. Four young gamecock football players, led by star running back Marcus Lattimore, discussed their faith on and off the field. All four said that they use their talents to glorify God and to spread his message to their friends, teammates and fans.

Center T.J. Johnson said that every time he snaps the ball, he does so for Christ, asking for “hands for war and fingers to fight. (Psalm 144:1).”  If our center snaps the ball for Christ, why am I not blogging, tweeting and facebooking for Christ? I have a platform to reach people online and I work with the people that make laws for our state and nation. If I do not work for the glory of Christ, what am I working for?  Money, fame, power?
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